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complaining, blaming and worrying about money.
Complaining and blaming is a focus on the
past, and worry is a fear of the future, neither of which
generates money in the present. In fact, worry actually keeps
money away by creating a negative energy field. People do not
like being around or doing business with grumpy, depressed, or
complaining people. Complaining and blaming guarantees that you
will continue to be victim to your financial circumstances.
Many people complain, blame and worry about money because it
is a habit or they are filling up empty mind time ,
spending
emotional time and energy complaining, blaming and worrying,
actually drains energy that could be used productively to
generate money.
Eliminate the need to be right about
receiving/generating money.
Most people have blinders on when considering options for
generating and receiving money. Thinking that money is generated
only by a paycheck closes down the creative flow of money.
Insisting on being right about the way we think money is
generated or received is limiting in some very significant ways.
A box is created around our financial well being that is defined
by our beliefs, judgments, and assumptions. How many times do
you keep money away because of some belief about pride or being
selfish? Say 'yes' to gifts of money. Send yourself and the
Universe a message that you are open and willing to receive
money.
Be current and complete on all financial
transactions.
Avoiding unresolved financial matters, such as old debts, is
like carrying around a ball and chain of the past. Stay
up-to-date and pay attention to money details. Open and pay
bills in a timely manner. Balance check books and keep your
financial house in order. Avoidance and denial blocks the ease
and flow of money in some very significant ways.
Think before you buy or do not spend at
all.
Appreciation and gratitude for the abundance that you already
have brings more comfort and peace than comfort shopping.
Compulsive, impulsive spending usually leads to guilt and
regret, giving the subconscious mind a powerful negative money
message. Be a good steward of the resources with which you are
already blessed. Enjoy the new things you buy with a spirit of
peace and gratitude.
A credit card is in reality an unsecured, interest-bearing
30-day loan. A recent newspaper article posed the following
question: "How long would it take to repay a $5,000 credit
card balance by paying the minimum amount due each month at an
average 17% interest?" The answer? "It would take more
than 40 years." You may find it beneficial to take credit
cards out of your wallet and use them only when you make a
conscious decision to do so. Better yet, take a six-month
breather from using credit cards for consumer purchases.
Communicate openly and honestly with
yourself and others.
Money is one of our last taboos making honest communications
difficult. It is a highly charged, emotional subject that is
often especially volatile among family and spouses. Many people
get themselves into money stress rather than tell the financial
truth to themselves and others. Willingness to see the truth,
speak from the heart (without stories that keep the truth
hidden), and with kindness and respect to others and ourselves
makes it safe to have massive amounts of money.
Trust yourself to make wise decisions.
All financial decisions are made with inadequate information
since none of us can tell the future. Most people make the best
decision they can with the information they have.
Second-guessing and ruminating over past mistakes is a waste of
valuable time and energy. Give yourself time to evaluate,
consider, and trust yourself, and then take the next step. Trust
your own process, and be gentle with yourself. When you gain
confidence in your ability to truly trust yourself, you can
trust yourself to have all the money you desire.
Take appropriate action when off
principle.
As you take these principles into your heart, you may notice
times when you are off-track, or have not paid sufficient
attention to one or several of the principles. Take immediate
action to move back into alignment with these principles. Allow
them to be used as valuable learning tools. They will lead,
guide and direct you along the path to true wealth.
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